|Posted by Beverley Anne Freeman on April 21, 2020 at 10:30 AM|
Women and men have used cosmetics for thousands of years to enhance the skin; however, it has only been recently that cosmetic products have been available to structurally alter the skin. The ancient Egyptians applied perfumes and anointing oils to their body as early as 4000 BC. The bust of the Egyptian queen, Nefertiti (1367–1350 BC) (the word nefer means beautiful) that stands in the entry of the Berlin Museum is mute testimony to the level of cosmetic art available and used in those early years. Even then, copper was a part of their cosmetics. Eye makeup was probably the most characteristic of the Egyptian cosmetics. The most popular colours were green and black. The green was originally made from malachite, an oxide of copper, and the black, from galena, a lead sulfide mineral.
The person whose innovation has made possible the use of copper in skincare products is a biochemist, Dr Loren R. Pickart, who developed the first such products as a result of his graduate work at the University of California – San Francisco in the1970s. As a result of Dr Pickart’s work, by 2001, over 40 products based on copper-peptide-induced tissue regeneration are marketed by at least 12 companies throughout the world. In addition, to the so-called face lift products, copper peptides are used:
- in products that aid skin healing post-surgery; after laser resurfacing, dermabrasion and chemical peels;
- to stimulate hair growth and during the transplantation of hair;
- to aid skin conditions in persons with acne, diabetes and psoriasis;
- for use as sun tanning lotion for increasing the efficiency of melanogenesis and reducing post-tanning skin peeling;
- in aftershave lotions; and
- in veterinary wound cleanser and healing products.
Studies have shown that copper peptide-containing products are more effective than topical application of the more traditional dermatological treatments — Vitamin C, tretinoin or melatonin — on the ultrastructure of the skin3.
Science Behind Copper Peptide Cosmetic Products
Copper’s role in skincare and wound treatment was first discussed in the Ebers Papyrus — the oldest book known to man and written in approximately 1550 BC13. The Ebers Papyrus documents folk medicine practised in ancient Egypt at the time of its writing and many centuries earlier. Specifically, the treatment of burn wounds and certain growths of the neck (presumably boils) are mentioned, as are remedies for eye ailments. Subsequent medical volumes — the Hippocratic Collection (460 to 380 BC), De Medicina (14–37 AD), Pliney’s Historia Naturalis (23–79 AD) — copper compounds are called for in the treatment of various skin diseases and infections.
Although ancient practice and basic science had paved the way for medicinal use in wound healing, it was not until recently that consideration was given to the use of copper in cosmetic preparations. It has long been known that copper combines with certain proteins in the body to produce enzymes that act as catalysts assisting several body functions. Some of these enzymes help provide the energy required by biochemical reactions; others are involved in the transformation of melanin for pigmentation of the skin, and still, others help to form cross-links in collagen and elastin and thereby maintain and repair connective tissues. It has also been known that copper complexes can be used to both prevent and to repair injury to tissue due to ionizing radiation14.
Recently, scientists in France have found that GHL-Cu stimulates collagen synthesis15. At Stanford University’s Wound Healing and Tissue Engineering Laboratory, scientists have found that certain types of copper peptides help the process of skin remodelling and removal of scar tissue16. Such types of copper peptides help activate the skin's metalloproteinases that remove damaged proteins (sun as sun-damaged collagen and elastin) and scars. At the same time, they help activate your skin's anti-proteinases TIMP-1 andTIMP-2, which protect against the excessive breakdown of protein17. Thus, copper peptides added to skin creams help the process of rebuilding new collagen and elastin into the skin.
According to Pickart, numerous research and human clinical studies at over thirty universities and medical research institutes have found copper-peptides in animal and human studies to:
- Accelerate wound repair (humans, mice, rats, guinea pigs, pigs, dogs)
- Increases skin re-epithelialization (humans and animals)18.
- Reverses ageing effects on the skin (humans) — thickens skin, improves elasticity, and increases subcutaneous fat layer • Improve skin graft transplant success (pigs)
- Improve hair transplant success (humans)
- GHL analogues with fatty residue analogues increase hair follicle size and growth rate
- Stimulate hair growth and reduce hair loss (humans, mice, rats)
- Stimulate bone healing (guinea pigs, pigs, rabbits)
- Heal injured intestinal linings (humans, rats)
- Heal stomach ulcers (rats)
- Blocks oxidative injury in tissues
- It has been found that biologically effective copper-peptides help the skin to:
- Regenerate new collagen and elastin which improves skin firmness and elasticity,
- Increase the production of water-holding glycosaminoglycans which is true moisturization,
- Improve the skin’s blood vessel microcirculation,
- Produce biochemical energy from nutrients in the body’s blood supply,
- Increase the natural defence mechanism against oxidative damage, and
- Repair damage to the protective skin barrier. As the skin is rebuilt and scars removed, the elastic properties of the skin pull it into a smooth surface.
Thus, in addition to copper being an essential element of life19, copper is equally important in staving off the ravages of time to our appearance and in the maintenance of the elusive physiological quality we call beauty.
My recommended Product: https://www.cultbeauty.co.uk/the-ordinary-buffet-copper-peptides-1.html
|Posted by Beverley Anne Freeman on March 26, 2020 at 8:35 AM|
Over the coming days, I will be updating my blog with information, tips and inspiration to help you overcome the Pandemic challenge. Let’s make this an opportunity and allow staying at home to be productive for mind body and soul.
Here are my top 5 suggestions of what you can do to working on your ‘spiritual Self’ whilst we are contained within our homes.
1. Meditate – this is the perfect opportunity to implement meditation into your daily routine. It will have a calming effect on your energy vibration and going within is a place you will find inner peace.
If you are unsure how to meditate you can use my YouTube Channel to find a perfect meditation for you. Sitting in the Power is my favourite: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d502fxPDB-c&t=3s
I also love Wayne Dyer/James Twyman’s meditation I Am. You can use the mantra “I am naturally immune” or simply “I am, That I am. I am that.” Meaning I am part of God and the universe, and that I harness the power of both and a natural state of being.
Start with just 10 mins and work up to an hour. If you want to meditate like a guru, try 3 – 4 hours of meditation per day. The results will be astounding and can include:
• Peace, calm and a feeling of unconditional love throughout your very being.
• Boost your immune system.
• Neuroscientists have found that meditators shift their brain activity to different areas of the cortex - brain waves in the stress-prone right frontal cortex move to the calmer left frontal cortex, even after you have stopped meditating.
• Oneness with spirits, guides and angels.
• Rest and rejuvenate the organs in the body.
• By sending love into the consciousness of the planet you can eradicate fear and eliminate stress in the world. Affecting the energy vibration of all your brothers and sisters.
2. Create a gratitude journal – write down 5 things you are grateful today that is different from yesterday. By practising and writing down the things you are grateful for you are sending an intention out into the universe of positivity and love. What you give out to the universe you get more and more and more of. So, let’s start by being grateful for health. To create and manifest situations you can be grateful for thing that may not have yet come into being by assuming they have already i.e. “I am grateful for the end of the pandemic”. Be creative.
3. Make prayer part of your daily routine. By talking to source, you are connecting directly to the divine presence of love that is within you and all around you. In this act, we can ask, tell and share all our innermost thoughts, desires and fears. When we do this, we surrender them to a higher power and in that moment we are opening our hearts to receiving divine guidance. That guidance will allow you to recognise and utilise the natural flow of life and in turn, creates trust. Trust is the big sister of hope and these are essential to human survival. Pray to whichever higher power takes your fancy but allow yourself to be consistent in your prayer ritual. Try to pray in the morning as soon as you wake, akin to taking a spiritual shower. This way you can hand over your worries, fears and requests to spirit, cleansing your for the rest of the day.
4. Expand your knowledge – read or listen to information that will expand your mind and in turn your conscious awareness. There is this current trend of TV and Netflix, unfortunately, although this may provide (occasionally required) escapism, it will not expand your awareness. Be open to the absorption of philosophy, spiritual wisdom and explorative ideas and concepts that will introduce you to new thought processes. By doing this you are actually loving the very nature of who you are. Your nature is, in essence, inquisitive. You soul loves to absorb new things and because your soul is part of the universe, its natural state is expansion. Spend your time listening to audio tracks on Audible, podcasts, YouTube, SoundCloud, etc. make these tracks counts – listen to spiritual teachers or those people that inspire you. To be inspired is to be ‘in-spirit’ and when you are in your spirit you are living your fullest life. Read and absorb wisdom and philosophy of the highest quality and fill your mind and your heart with the love that others who are on the ‘seekers journey’ are offering. The best thing you can do for yourself is the switch of the TV and invest time in learning about the love which is available to you.
5. Learn how to breathe – The breath and the body are interconnected, as is seen from the fact that the breath is calm when the body is calm and agitated or laboured when the body is agitated or laboured. Breath and the mind are interconnected, as is seen from the fact that the breath is calm when the mind is calm, and agitated, irregular, and laboured when the mind is agitated or disturbed in any way. Our holding of the breath when attempting intense concentration also shows this. Breath, which exists on all planes of manifestation, is the connecting link between matter and energy on the one hand and consciousness and mind on the other. By sitting with closed eyes and letting the mind become easefully absorbed in observing and experiencing the movements of the breath we enter into the consciousness from which it arises–the eternal Witness Consciousness. Start with awareness of the ordinary physical breath, but that awareness, when cultivated correctly, leads us into higher awareness which enables us to perceive the subtle movement behind the breath. Ultimately, we come into contact with the Breather of the breath, our own Spirit-Self.
The practice of Breath Meditation
• Sit upright, comfortable and relaxed, with your hands on your knees or thighs, palms up or palms down or resting, one on the other, in your lap.
• Turn your eyes slightly downward and close them gently. This removes visual distractions and reduces your brain-wave activity by about seventy-five per cent, thus helping to calm the mind.
• Your mouth should be closed so all breathing is done through the nose. This, too, aids in quieting the mind. Though your mouth is closed, the jaw muscles should be relaxed so the upper and lower teeth are not clenched or touching one another, but parted.
• Inhale and exhale slowly and deeply three or four times, feeling the inhaling and exhaling breath moving in and out through your nostrils.
• Now breathe naturally and easefully, keeping your awareness on the tip of your nose, feeling the breath as it flows in and out of your nostrils. (Some people become more aware of the half-inch or so at the end of the nose, others the very end of the nose and others remain more aware of the nostrils. Whichever happens naturally is the best for you. So whenever this book says “nose tip” it applies equally to these three areas.) Do not follow the breath in and out of your body, but just be aware of the breath movement sensation at the tip of your nose.
• Keeping your awareness on the tip of your nose, breathe naturally and calmly, easefully observing the sensation of the breath moving there throughout all your inhalations and exhalations. This enables you to enter effortlessly into the Witness Consciousness that is your true nature.
• Do this for the rest of the meditation, letting your awareness rest gently on the breath at the nose tip and feeling the sensations of the breath moving there. After a while, it may feel as though the breath is flowing in and out the tip of your nose more than the actual nostrils, or you may not feel the nose at all, but just the breath moving at the point in front of your face where the nose is located. That is perfectly all right, but the focus of your attention should be only at that point–not somewhere else either outside or inside the body.
• Let the breath be as it will. If the breath is naturally long, let it be so. If it is short, let it be so. If the inhalations and exhalations are of unequal length, that is just fine. Let the breath be natural and unforced, and just observe and experience it.
|Posted by Beverley Anne Freeman on January 12, 2020 at 6:15 AM|
What indeed does this year bring? We all ask ourselves at that ecliptic January moment, and I don’t know about you? But I tend to think about it every year. When looking forward though, we have this habit of looking back, it seems to humanise everything, often, analysing what the previous year taught us, what we accomplished, how things ravined, obstacles, motivators and souvenirs to take into the future.
I had plenty of clients who’s loved ones made their transition, back home to the beautiful love and light ‘from whence we came’. My heart went out to those who called me asking for clarification that their loved ones made it back home, safe and sound. Of course, it’s a path you cannot stray from… a one way only Route: back to heaven. Leaving those here, feeling loss and grief in a quagmire of sadness. My heart goes out to all those who lost this year, and those of us who remembered loss from previous years. My additional advice is to remember the good times; the laughter and the memories created.
I think last year presented us all with many challenges, both personal, economic and political. Last year seemed to bring forth necessary disruption and provocation, providing a cleansing for new possibilities in the coming year. Let’s not forget that we are also entering into a new decade. A new ten year period. Let’s lay the foundations of that ten year period in this god-given twelve months, to enable revigorated plans and ideas to spring forth.
In my own life and particularly my career path I intend to forge ahead with new plans and ideas, executing them (as always) with conviction, positivity and love. So, what can you expect from me in 2020?
In 2020 I will be returning to the UK to promote my new book, Perspectives: A Journey From Self-sabotage to Self-love. I will be doing a small book tour visiting my wonderful clients and supporters in New York, Sweden, Portugal, London & Manchester. Thank you for all those who have purchased the book so far and the amazing feedback, love and support which never fails to astound me. I think the book has a path all of its own, quite detached from me. This is why I will not rest until it reached global domination (with perennial humour).
I have a few dates already booked in, including International Women’s Day in Hale, Cheshire on the 6th March, where I will be doing a book signing and speaking (organized by the Cheshire Socialites: https://cheshiresocialites.co.uk/). Where we will be celebrating women everywhere, the beauty and strength of feminine energy, for females are the creators, the pioneers and the love element in the human experience. Nature itself is indeed female, for in winter she is pregnant and in summer, she gives birth.
Then there is something for the men. I will be offering special services and workshops which will focus on men living in an ever-changing world, understanding that men need love and support to achieve their dreams and support their lovers, children and parents. I will release a special newsletter that will focus on men’s mental health issues in the next few weeks.
As a longtime supporter of veganism and with Greta Thunberg paving the way for climate change, I will be running vegan cooking demonstrations and workshops with the introduction of my new company Dine Vegan… more details coming soon. The idea is not to preach or bully people into veganism but just to allow those who are interested to try new taste sensations whilst supporting our lovely friend… the earth.
I would like to offer my heartfelt thanks to all those who have supported my online courses business this year. Its continued success will be celebrated by introducing two new online courses, more details coming soon https://www.psychiccoursesonline.com/).
There will be much more writing coming your way this year (demand-driven of course…). The sequel to Perspective will be written in 2020, (in between cups of tea, weight training, walking by the Cheshire rivers, talking to my beautiful clients and cooking vegan food… phew…), the new book will have lots more funny stories of my delinquent teens and twenties, more life lessons and (hopefully) more wisdom. The new book, entitled Paradox: What Happens After Self-love, will detail what happens after you’ve found self-love? Well of course after self-love, we encounter self-actualisation. But what does this actually mean or entail? How do we start to live our most authentic, happy and exciting life amidst the drama and challenges that everyday unwittingly throws in our path? With courage and conviction of course….. ladies and gentlemen, would I encourage you to do anything else?
Lastly, I would like to say a huge thanks to all my clients who support me. It's you that keep me inspired and motivated to find new innovation and creative projects. I hope that through the creating of my dreams, I can inspire you guys to create yours.
“And God told him, "I am God Almighty. Be fruitful and multiply. A nation--even a company of nations--shall come from you, and kings shall descend from you.” ~ Genesis 35:11
|Posted by Beverley Anne Freeman on December 22, 2019 at 9:50 AM|
Vegan Nut Roast Cake
200g Cashew Nuts
200g Pecan Nuts
200g Ground Almonds
1 Tin of cooked lentils
1 Medium Onion, finely chopped
2 Cloves of Garlic
100g of Breadcrumbs
1 Veg Stock Cube
4 Fluid Ounces of Boiling Water
1 tbsp of Mix Herbs
1 tbsp Olive Oil
Ground Black Pepper
1tsp of Ground Allspice
1. Put the nuts into a blender and blend until fine but with a few rough pieces left.
2. Fry the onions and garlic in the oil with a little salt.
3. Place the stock cube in the 4oz of boiling water.
4. Combined all the ingredients in a large bowl.
5. Press into a cake tin and cook on high for 30 mins until brown and roast around the edges and top.
6. Serve with traditional Christmas fayre.
|Posted by Beverley Anne Freeman on October 13, 2019 at 12:15 PM|
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7 Practices to Live Your Most Fulfilled and Peaceful Life
We have all read the self-help books, many times we have bought books and either left them to collect dust on the shelf or simply not applied the principles into our lives. Wake-up call!! It is called ‘Self’ Help! If we don’t make the necessary changes to heal, improve or create a different perception, nothing will ever change for us.
In some cases, we read this or that, but it doesn’t give us clear instruction as to how to implement these changes effectively. So, I have written down for you here, 7 practices that will have a huge positive impact on your life IF, you use them. There are no miracle cures, healing is hard work, but, what I can promise you is that if you do these 7 practices and continue to use them in your life, you will create a life of peace, contentment and ultimately happiness.
1. Spiritual Practices
Making spiritual practices part of your routine is essential to helping all the other practices work. There are 3 essential spiritual practices which will help to massively improve your minds, activity, which are:
Meditation – start with 10 mins per day and gradually work up to 1 hour. This should become as normal as brushing your teeth. Meditation can be done anytime but keep it consistent – everyday. Check out the toolkit below for meditation ideas.
Prayer – Do this every day, talk to God, the universe, your higher self, what you call it is not important; ask for guidance (especially if you are struggling with something), prayer is the most powerful tool in your box. Prayer is best done in the morning to start your day. Check out the toolkit for more ideas.
Gratitude – create a gratitude journal and write down 5 things you are grateful for every day, this is best done at night. Keep your book and pen by your bed. Gratitude is the single most important tool in the manifestation of a better life. We can always find things to be grateful for in our lives, what we give out, we get more of.
2. Practice Non-attachment
The second principle maybe completely alien to you because you may have been taught as a child that certain things are ‘yours’. The practice of non-attachment is essential to those who find life difficult.
“The root of suffering is attachment” ~ Buddha
The most important thing to let go of is drama, your own drama and other people’s drama. Drama is when we create mayhem around a situation when its entirely unnecessary, and not to get sucked into other people’s reactions to things. Another words, mind you own business.
Let go of material possessions, no one really owns anything, and you will take nothing from the material word with you when you go home to the realm of spirit. It you lose something, let it go, if someone steels something from you, let it go, if something breaks, let it go. Holding on to things that are never coming back, will only cause you pain.
Practice non-attachment to people and places. Understand that everything is perfect, if someone needs to go in a different direction than you, just allow that to happen, knowing that they will be back when you really need them (not when you think you need them).
3. Let go of Expectation
Letting go of expectation is really learning to trust in the natural process of life. Expectation is limitation. When we have no expectation of an outcome or when we expect nothing, we will never be disappointed.
Think about it, when a relationship ends badly, be it a love relationship, friendship or family member, its usually because you had an expectation of how a person was supposed to behave. An expectation from a person that they were unable or unwilling to fulfill.
Going into a relationship or situation (job, party, workshop, etc.) without any expectation whatsoever will open the door for miracles to occur. Live by the philosophy that maybe ‘God has a better idea’. If we allow, rather than push, the universe can deliver beyond our wildest dreams. So, let go and let live!
4. Understand the Illusion
The illusion is created in the ego and creates fear in your life. There are only 2 states of ‘being’; love and fear, everything fits into these two categories. At all times you are either living in a state of fear or love, all that is fear is illusion, all that is love is real.
“What God did not create does not exist. And everything that does exist exists as He created it. The world you see has nothing to do with reality. It is of your own making, and it does not exist.” ~ A Course in Miracles
Pain might seem real at the time, suffering may feel real at the time but if you can step into a place of love, all fear will be diminished. So how do we apply this in real time? Easy, never react with anger or aggression (fear-based illusion), always act with kindness (love). Forgive and be unwilling to accept fear, illness, lack or need. Always send love to yourself, others and anything which seems unbalanced (its not unbalanced, its an illusionary perception created in your own mind). In every situation be not in a state of ego, but in a state of love.
“EGO – Edging God Out” ~ Wayne Dyer
5. Live in the Present
Living in the present moment means switching off the mind talk and just simply ‘being fully present’. The mind is where the illusion is created, in fact it’s the only place where it exists, for it is the only place where fear can live (fear: false evidence appearing real).
Living fully present means using the past and the future as reference points only. Using past experiences to serve the present moment and if you are practising all the other above, the future will not come in to in, unless, you are planning an event.
Letting go of the past is understanding that it is never coming back, that it is gone, over. Just forget it. Not anticipating what will come (especially the negative mind talk) will create a stress free life in itself.
6. Know You’re not Alone
We live on a planet with approximately 8 billion people on it. This should tell you that you’re not alone, but quite often we feel we have to do everything for ourselves. So, if you are unable to feel the love of your 8 billion brothers and sisters, try this instead.
Know and call upon your guides, angels and loved ones who have passed away. If you want you can speak to God, source, the universal life force, what you call it makes no difference to the power and presence of love which is available to all from the non-physical realms. Meditation and prayer will help you with this practice.
Just ask: either aloud or in your mind “help me, I need guidance today” or “I’m lost, help me get back on track…..show me the way out of the illusion and into a place of my true being…love”. Once you start calling upon your guides and angels, you can know that you are not alone.
7. Take Care of Your Body
The body houses the soul, its important. Love it, honour it, respect it. Be kind to your body and treat it like an expensive car, maintenance is super important. Give it the best you can; the best food and exercise, don’t give it poisons like; processed foods, cigarettes, drugs and alcohol.
Know that the body is sacred and with sexual activity only use it with someone who you love and trust, you wouldn’t lend your Bentley to the irresponsible driver next door, so don’t give away your body to anyone who doesn’t deserve it.
Take part in some physical exercise that makes you happy, every single day. Walking, swimming, dancing, weight training, yoga, Tai Chi….whatever works for you. I like to listen to something motivational whilst I walk or workout. Spiritual books on Audible or podcasts from Oprah’s Super Soul Conversations or Hay House are wonderful ways to feed your mind whilst loving your body.
A Morning Prayer
Dear God, I love you,
How may I serve you today?
Lead me towards the highest place in Self,
That I may spread love and kindness wherever I go.
Let’s create miracles today;
Allowing all perception to shift from fear to love.
Lead the way in creating love and kindness within me and all around me.
Enable me to give love and receive love in equal measure,
In doing so, I will always have enough love in me to serve the world with you as my guide.
Let me recognise that the holy spirit lives in me and that in this physical world I am an expression of your love.
I send loving healing thoughts out to all mankind, recognising that all are my brothers and sisters.
Allow my ego to reside in a quiet place, so that my divinity may take centre stage in this life.
I love you, God. Amen
Written by Beverley Anne Freeman, 2018
|Posted by Beverley Anne Freeman on August 21, 2019 at 4:40 AM|
Relationships take up a lot of time in our lives, the average person will spend more than three quarters of their life in a relationship. Relationships can be wonderful and fulfilling but are also responsible for the majority of the pain we suffer in our lifetime. Most of the relationships that come to mind as you read this will be the romantic kind but many other relationships including those with our parents, children, siblings, friends and co-workers will also have a profound effect on you as you progress through life.
Initially nearly all relationships start of ripe, optimistic and full of hopes for future. Human beings love nothing better than the debate and discussion of how we can create our dream lives with another, we enjoy the closeness and intimacy of sex, the companionship of togetherness and finding our life partner is often the ultimate goal.
What is the purpose of relationships?
Although you may have an idea in your head driven and carved out by society, onset by religious ideals that a relationship should follow the stereotypical path of marriage and children; spirituality shares a different message. Spirituality teaches us that every connection with every human being we ever have, has a divine purpose or learning opportunity.
All relationships show us how much love we are capable of giving and receiving at any given time in our lives. Everything else is humanness and ego. Relationships show us our flaws, our healing requirements and are mirrors of what we are failing to see in ourselves.
When a relationship cause us to feel pain it’s because we are doing one or more of the following:
- When you expect a person to give you something, they haven’t got
- When you expect a person to be someone, they aren’t
- When you expect a person to do something they cannot do.
- Pain stems from your unpacked baggage that we inherited and mastered from our emotional pathology and thus creates expectations in our relationships.
- Pain comes from holding on to something which will never fulfill you.
- Pain comes from trying to learn how to stay in a relationship which you know you need to leave.
How we behave in relationships is developed in our formative years and with the bonding patterns we create with our primary caregivers. Bonding patterns are usually one of three types:
The Child - Created when they have an overprotective or overbearing parent. In a relationship you become the needy child, always craving love and attention. Relaying on your partner for emotional support and feeling unable to be alone in life.
The Parent - Created when a child learns very early on, they have to fend for themselves. When they grow up with a parent who is incapable of or too busy to look after them. You become the person who organizes their partner, supports and gives unconditionally with little regard for yourself or your needs.
The Critic - When one or more of the parents is critical (whether out of love and encouragement or otherwise) Always criticizing your partners, sometimes in way to encourage but ultimately finding the opposite effect.
Bonding patterns and pathology are a huge part of why we can’t seem to make a relationship work or find the right partner. If we don’t acknowledge, accept and heal these parts of ourselves we will never find peace or happiness.
Healing relationships starts with you….
As we attract into our life that which we need to recognize and heal in ourselves, if you are in a relationship which unhappy then you need to look within… and find out what types of behaviors and patterns exist:
To create a relationship of equality, we need to stop:
- I am responsible for my own happiness
- I am responsible for how I feel
- I am responsible for what I do and don’t do
- I am responsible for what I chose
- I am responsible for what is going on in my life right now.
|Posted by Beverley Anne Freeman on July 28, 2019 at 7:40 AM|
There has been a lot of talk recently about self-love, loving yourself and I wonder if people really understand what self-love is and why its important. After all, didn’t Jesus say, ‘love thy neighbour’, so how do we love ourselves and everybody else at the same time.
To understand the concept of self-love, we really need to look at the ‘laws of the universe’. The universe works on a set of principles which are complex, diverse and perfect and yet when broken down are also incredibly simple to follow and work with. It’s the understanding of them which creates confusion amongst humans. To a large extent, humans often try to describe a set of non-physical principles in a physical way, this is how these ‘laws’ become misconstrued.
Let’s look at Karma…. The law of cause and effect…..
Now most people think that if you do something good or bad then some invisible force will create the same situation coming back to you. So, if you do lots of charity work, you will in effect get more abundance back in your life. If you murder someone, you will get bad things coming into your life, etc. I suggest you look at Karma in a different light.
The law of karma does indeed, suggests that what you give out you get back, the less accepted information suggests that it’s our creation. We create situations in accordance with our karma by how we think or feel about certain situations. If you have done something that you feel guilty, embarrassed or anxious about you will create a situation that reflects this. This will be a reoccurring pattern that will continue until we heal the emotion in ourselves. The same goes for the positive, if we feel we have done ‘good’ we will create more opportunities to ‘feel’ good in our lives, by doing this we are learning to accept (or heal) love and abundance.
This leads us to ‘The Laws of Attraction’…………..
As with the law of karma, the laws of attraction will continue to work perfectly in alignment with our deepest beliefs and fears about ourselves, our lives and the physical experience in its entirety. This means that what we belief about ourselves on a deep subconscious level will manifest itself into a physical reality for the purpose of learning and ultimately, healing. All laws of attraction and karma are for the purpose of healing the soul. The soul has little concern for the physical experience, only that the physical is a tool for spiritual growth. Spiritual growth occurs through learning experiences, that ‘force’ us to heal on a deep soul level. This is what is meant by ‘pain is your greatest teacher’. Painful experiences are the gifts we gift to ourselves to reach a more enlightened state of being, or at least depending on our ability to learn and heal, the opportunity for this to happen.
“There is nothing ‘wrong’ in the world. It is all working perfectly in balance with the laws of nature and the universal principles.” Abraham Hicks
So, if what we believe about ourselves on a deep subconscious level manifests itself into the life, we are living then it’s time to look at what is in our subconscious. Most of our subconscious beliefs are formed in our childhood years in addition to experiences we have as we move into adulthood. After this, everything both good and bad is a manifestation of those beliefs we create.
Sorry to tell you but those failed relationships, negative experiences, horrible bosses and co-workers and health problems are manifestations of our subconscious mind in accordance with the natural spiritual laws.
So how can we change our deep-seated beliefs and childhood programming? Its basically a case of looking deep within ourselves, looking at what has embodied itself there, how that is impacting your life in the present moment and how you have created and manifested your life experiences so far. Only by healing the root cause and then creating practices to re-programme the subconscious mind can we make changes for the better.
At the root of all negativity in our life is a desire to heal something. Its like a big wake-up call that shouts out to us and says, ‘come on now, its time to get straight and be happy’. The most powerful emotion in the universe is love. If you have a difficult situation send love, if you a behaving in a self-destructive way (i.e. addictions, etc.) then send love to yourself, if you are ill, send love to the part of your body which is affected (this is truly what healing is anyway), if a person is causing you misery, send them love. The only true healer is love.
Self-love is a state of knowing (or remembering) who you truly are. A divine spark of God, a pure light having a physical ‘learning’ experience. In this sense you are actually infinite, untouchable, indestructible…. Eternal. If you can remember this you will never be in a state of ‘pain’, because you cannot be in pain, you can be only ‘love’.
To be able to fully heal you need to dig deep into your thoughts, feelings, behaviours and pathology. Change the subconscious re-programming that occurred from conception to seven years old and start to implement a state of self-love to move forward in a more blissful existence.
Self-love is honoring your feelings, teaching others how to treat you with respect, its loving who you are with all your imperfections, total acceptance of who you are and what your capabilities are. Quietening of the ego and always listening to the place in you which is love. Self-love is not about seeking God outside of yourself but knowing that God is within you.
Sex outside of a loving relationship, eating processed foods, over consumption of alcohol, drugs, cigarettes, laziness, tardiness and indulging in relationships with those who do not make us feel good are all ways we seek happiness outside of ourselves. When we do this it becomes a ‘temporary feel-good solution’ that in no time at all wears off. This cycle of behavious ultimately leads to co-dependency, depression and a constant craving for new experiences.
When we learn how to love ourselves fully and completely, we no longer require these external validations but instead feel a sense of peace and wellbeing in all that we are.
Self-love does not go against being of service in the world. We can give to others in service to humanity, it is possible for every single person to contribute to raising to the vibration of the human race. The most profound and powerful way to be of service is to step into our authenticity and life life purpose, using your unique talents and skills for the furtherance of good. Only in this balance of self-love and service will you ever create, manifest or experience your fullest and most abundant life.
|Posted by Beverley Anne Freeman on January 2, 2019 at 7:15 AM|
Blog – Why Set Goals 2019
So this time of year is a perfect time to set yourself new goals and challenges, although, to be honest we can set ourselves goals throughout the year. If you set unrealistic goals or don’t have an action plan behind them your likely to fall short of your targets. This article is a simple guide to setting goals and making sure you reach them, making way for new challenges and goals thereafter.
Why would you want to challenge yourself at all?
The human brain is wired to make life easier for us to do day to day activities, these form habits. Our habits shape our experience and our experience creates our emotions and beliefs about how life is. These ‘beliefs’ actually work with the creative energy force of the universes to create our future. If you are happy with the way your life is going right now, then it’s important to keep consistent in your creative mode. However, if there are areas of your life which you feel need either a tweak or a complete overhaul, then read on….
A challenge is something outside of our normal behaviour and should encourage a more productive set of behaviours that can form habits. In Lally's study, it took anywhere from 18 days to 254 days for people to form a new habit. In other words, if you want to set your expectations appropriately, the truth is that it will probably take you anywhere from two months to eight months to build a new behaviour into your life — not 21 days.
Goal setting will enable you visualise the final results and break it down in to achievable short terms goals, so you don’t feel overwhelmed.
Remember the only failure is not to try at all.
So here is a common goals you may want to set yourself for 2019 and a breakdown of how to get there.
1. Health & Fitness Goals
Overall Target May look like one of these:
• Lose 1 stone in Weight (or gain if your building)
• Get body fat percentage down to 22%
• Reduce BMI by 5%
• Lose 3 inches from chest, waist and hips (or if your building it may be gains)
• Decide on a 1-month goal, a 2 month goal, 3 month goal, 6 month goal and a 12 month goal.
The obvious place to start here is with 2 areas:
Diet Action Plan:
First 7 days
• Join a slimming club
• Get help from a professional like a PT or a nutritionist
• Devise your own plan by calculating your micros and use a tracker like My Fitness Pal – If so, do your calculations and download App.
• Get a book to record your results, this will depend on your target.
• Take photos front on and side on
• Buy a small amount of the foods set out in your plan, try not to go too much outside your regular eating otherwise your likely to feel deficient and give up. You can always add more healthy foods and set yourself tighter challenges as you go along. Swapping nuts for crisps could be a small goal towards a healthier life style.
Fitness Action Plan
• Decide what exercise you enjoy, don’t join a gym if you’re never going to go. Instead try something like walking or join a dance class and commit to going for at least 8 weeks.
• If your walking, download some tunes or an audio book to listen.
• Organise your diary to make time for exercise, make sure is achievable.
• You may enlist the help of a personal trainer or coach to help you train and motivate you.
• Join classes like Tai Chi, Yoga or Pilates, Zumba or aerobics, swim or do a home fitness DVD.
• Whatever you choose, commit to doing it on set days at set times, try to do some activity every single day, even if its just a 15 min walk.
• Record your results in a book and take photos to keep you motivated.
After 1 – 2 months
• Review your results
• If you’re overall goal was to lose 3” of body fat and you have lost 1.5” make a new goal for the next 4 weeks.
• If you result has been under what has been expected tweak your action plan.
• Decide on your long-term goal
• Break it down into small achievable goals
• Create an action plan
Attitude Is Everything
This is my favourite story which tells you attitude is everything.
Jerry was the kind of guy you love to hate. He was always in a good mood and always had something positive to say. When someone would ask him how he was doing, he would reply, "If I were any better, I would be twins!"
He was a unique manager because he had several waiters who had followed him around from restaurant to restaurant. The reason the waiters followed Jerry was because of his attitude. He was a natural motivator. If an employee was having a bad day, Jerry was there telling the employee how to look on the positive side of the situation.
Seeing this style really made me curious, so one day I went up to Jerry and asked him, "I don't get it! You can't be a positive person all of the time. How do you do it?" Jerry replied, "Each morning I wake up and say to myself, 'Jerry, you have two choices today. You can choose to be in a good mood or you can choose to be in a bad mood.' I choose to be in a good mood. Each time something bad happens, I can choose to be a victim or I can choose to learn from it. I choose to learn from it. Every time someone comes to me complaining, I can choose to accept their complaining, or I can point out the positive side of life. I choose the positive side of life. Attitude is everything."
"Yeah, right, it's not that easy," I protested. "Yes, it is," Jerry said. "Life is all about choices. When you cut away all the junk, every situation is a choice. You choose how you react to situations. You choose how people will affect your mood. You choose to be in a good mood or bad mood. The bottom line: It's your choice how you live life."
I reflected on what Jerry said. Soon thereafter, I left the restaurant industry to start my own business. We lost touch, but often thought about him when I made a choice about life instead of reacting to it.
Several years later, I heard that Jerry did something you are never supposed to do in a restaurant business: He left the back door open one morning and was held up at gunpoint by three armed robbers. While trying to open the safe, his hand, shaking from nervousness, slipped off the combination. The robbers panicked and shot him. Luckily, Jerry was found relatively quickly and rushed to the local trauma centre.
After 18 hours of surgery and weeks of intensive care, Jerry was released from the hospital with fragments of the bullets still in his body. I saw Jerry about six months after the accident. When I asked him how he was, he replied, "If I were any better, I'd be twins. Wanna see my scars?"
I declined to see his wounds but did ask him what had gone through his mind as the robbery took place. "The first thing that went through my mind was that I should have locked the back door," Jerry replied. "Then, as I lay on the floor, I remembered that I had two choices: I could choose to live, or I could choose to die. I chose to live."
"Weren't you scared? Did you lose consciousness?" I asked. Jerry continued, "The paramedics were great. They kept telling me I was going to be fine. But when they wheeled me into the emergency room and I saw the expressions on the faces of the doctors and nurses, I got really scared. In their eyes, I read, 'He's a dead man.' I knew I needed to take action."
"What did you do?" I asked.
"Well, there was a big, burly nurse shouting questions at me," said Jerry. "She asked if I was allergic to anything. 'Yes,' I replied. The doctors and nurses stopped working as they waited for my reply. I took a deep breath and yelled, 'Bullets!' Over their laughter, I told them, 'Look, I am choosing to live. Operate on me as if I am alive, not dead."
Jerry lived, thanks to the skill of his doctors, but also because of his amazing attitude. Attitude saved Jerry's life. Attitude is everything.
I learned from him that every day we have the choice to live fully. Attitude is everything. We can choose our attitude look on the positive side. Face the sun and let the shadow behind and you will in good mood every day.
|Posted by Beverley Anne Freeman on December 27, 2018 at 6:45 PM|
"All shallow roots must be uprooted, because they are not deep enough to sustain you"
~ A Course in Miracles
New year is always a time for reflection and this year I have been incredibly blessed. I have also felt immense love and support from clients old and new. I closed my beloved business in Cheshire in October 2017 to embark on a journey to pastures new with my long-term partner in Portugal. Well, as many times in my experience, that did not turn out as planned. The many problems we had in our relationship over the previous six years accumulated to an inevitable separation, all within three weeks of my arrival.
2018 was spent strolling endless sunny days in Portugal, walking the beautiful Algarve beaches and around 4 hours of meditation per day. During these self-indulgent, reflective and healing 12 months of my life I embarked on a deep spiritual peregrination. Through prayer, meditation, reading thought provoking books and watching inspirational talks I pieced together the layers of my life. I started to form a deeper understanding of Self and in turn, a peace that only love can deliver. A love experienced through a deep awareness of that which already Is.
All days rolled into one and time became irrelevant, knowing only light and dark; day and night. Initially I went to a familiar spiritual practice for me, meditation. Spending many hours on the beach, listening to the rolling waves, lifting myself higher to become the glorious, solid rock formations that surrounded me. I became lighter and lighter as I my consciousness floated up into the clouds. During these meditations I started to feel a deep connection to my own soul. I saw myself as a huge reflective being that had the ability to create as nature creates. I understood that all in the physical existence has the ability to create, reflect and perceive whilst being completely connected.
As hours, days and months unravelled so did the conditioning of my mind. Once I had felt the warmth and love of my soul I started to move into the expanded awareness of collective consciousness and the oneness of all. Meditation allowed me to hear the heart beat of all humans, all trees, plants, animals and birds. To transcend beyond the veil of the illusion into the reality of all that there is. I understood completely that the physical reality is filled with illusions that cause so much sadness and yet can equally give us a perception of joy. I understood that only love is real. All is pure love energy expressing itself in different forms to ‘experience’ at various levels of consciousness.
Meandering the streets of Portimao I started to see myself in all that surrounded me, every face I met, every voice I heard and every landscape and building. Looking at the outside world to understand your inner world gives a lighter look at situations, knowing that the creative life force energy within you, the true essence of who you are and the ‘God mind’ is experiencing as you experience.
Meditation led me to a deep love for God and all that was around me. This led me to prayer and prayer led me to gratitude. Daily spiritual practices enhanced my understanding without saying a single word. All the knowledge I had gained of some 30 years of reading spiritual books could not have given what a year of deep, extended periods of inner work had (and continue to do so).
You maybe be wondering how I afforded to pay my bills and do all this inner work. Well, once I felt the pure unconditional love that was me, my creative juices flowed beyond anything I had experienced before. I started to transform my business from the UK high street to a global online business through creative marketing and new concepts. Once I walked into a place where fear did not and could not exist, I began to ‘download’ ideas at a rate so rapid that I could barely keep up.
Online projects that in previous years had only drifted in like shadows. Books that needed writing, courses, new teaching methods and other products and services that felt perfectly in alignment with my soul. When working with clients online, I was downloading information and involuntarily using ‘inspired speaking’ to nurture, inspire and coach. I sat for trance and gave distance healing to people 1000’s of miles away in far off countries such as Africa, Australia and America with reports of extraordinary results. I met amazing people, made some life long friends and felt only beauty and joy in interactions with others.
When I moved into my apartment in Portimao it was a relatively new build with open spaces of over growth and wild, unruly flowers and trees, entwined with recalcitrant weeds. This was not only a reflection of my relationship but of the torrid state of mind I had been convincingly (to most) holding together for many months. The cluttered, unorganised, oppressive and unattractive view was a reflection of my own self-worth. It was showing me how chaotic my life had become, and the relationship was toxic like the weeds, taking my breath and binding me from physical and spiritual progression. During my remembering process that I was indeed unconditional love, a miracle occurred. In spring bulldozers came and started to clear the wild plants which surrounded my apartment. A direct reflection of the healing and inner cleansing I was doing. Within weeks the landscape changed from unkempt foliage to flat, smooth, clay coloured open views.
By summer 2018 a new apartment block was erected, showing me how I had started to rebuild the parts of me which required it and mirroring the creative life force which now flowed effortlessly through me. As the summer started to end and September dawned, new paths were built, small plants which would become great, beautiful trees formed gardens which represented it was time to move forward. I have successfully moved from a perceived shadow to a realisation that all life is an expression of God’s love in a physical form.
I now have more than an intellectual understanding of ‘spirituality’, but I have experienced a light so bright that it is not visible to the human eye. I light born of and unto love. Not the superficial romantic love of the earth plane but a deep connection with something that has no concept of time, space, judgment, hatred or greed.
So why are we here and what should we be doing? Questions pondered by humans since time began….. whenever that was. Well, the way I see it, is that we are all an expression of God trying to find our way back to its original source. The path to this is by the giving and receiving of pure love. ‘Pure’ love doesn’t hold judgment, nor does it have preferences. This means we must give authentic love to all people and things, regardless of what our human conditioning has taught us. We can not judge people by their actions, thoughts, speech and beliefs, but instead see and ‘know’ that all is a reflection of Self. Every person is an extension of the other (and an extension of you). This means that no one person can ever reach enlightenment until all reach enlightenment. If just one person is out of balance, we all are.
You must start by giving unconditional love to yourself. Meditation and prayer are essential to rekindling the love we have forgotten, love for who we are inside. Talk to the highest place in yourself and then listen to that same place to deeply understand. Steer away from hate, judgment and malice and instead practice love ad forgiveness. Only by doing this can you repair what has been broken. Be the creative process you desire and rather than seeing darkness in anything external see the world as your mirror. Work on yourself in order to right the wrongs of the world. To create a world with harmony we must first be the harmony. To create we must be that which we desire to be created. For truly, you are both healer and the healed.
Practice love, because love is the most contagious energy in the world, love creates miracles. May 2019 be full of miracles.
Beverley Anne Freeman
|Posted by Beverley Anne Freeman on August 21, 2018 at 4:10 PM|
I have been doing ‘psychic readings’ for around 20 years, I didn’t start doing readings professionally (i.e. charging people so I could make a living) until about 13 years ago. What I mean by a psychic reading is to sit with a person and with the assistance of cards tell them about themselves, their situations in current life and future predictions. I would estimate my overall success rate of predictions and accuracy at about 80%, meaning that about 80% of the time clients told me I was either accurate about the past, present or the future once it had happened. In addition to ‘psychic readings I have also communicated with spiritual realms where I have been able to provide people with relevant information about their deceased loved ones. I have done this in several ways; in the spiritualist churches giving demonstrations of mediumship, via private face to face readings with clients and over the internet and radio.
I have been teaching others how to develop for around 10 years and during this process have been learning about the process of these readings and their importance in society and the existence of the universe in general. My perception over the years has changed drastically as I have learned more about spirituality and science which studies ‘the unknown’ or non-physical realms of existence.
One thing I know for sure is that it is possible for all humans to delve into these areas of life as they are both innate and available to each of us. There are two things that will prevent a person from accessing the non-physical realms of existence which is: a lack of belief in the spiritual or in their own abilities and a lack of desire to explore these areas. Anyone who believes they can and is willing to try will develop both psychically and mediumisticly.
This is because we are made from the physical and the non-physical. The physical being the part of reality we see, feel and hear, that which we perceive to be ‘real’. The non-physical is the intangible, creative life force energy which we tend to call God or Spirit (both of which are just words made up by humans so neither having any relevance to the energy itself). To explore both psychic predictions and mediumship is to explore the realms of the non-physical which is a huge part of our existence.
Let’s start with psychic work. The psychic energy is consciousness and belongs in the ‘quantum field’ of energy. The quantum field theory (QFT) is the theoretical framework for constructing quantum mechanical models of subatomic particles in particle physics and quasiparticles in condensed matter physics. QFT treats particles as excited states of an underlying field, so these are called field quanta. In quantum field theory, quantum mechanical interactions among particles are described by interaction terms among the corresponding underlying quantum fields. To access the psychic part of a human is to access the ‘quantum’ energy of consciousness which holds within it all the knowledge and information surrounding all of existence.
If we look at theory of time and matter then we are simply just vibrational energy which looks like solid matter, therefore what we perceive to be real is actually an optical illusion. To work fully with a person’s ‘psychic energy’ is to see through the illusion of perception and into the vibrational energy of the person you are reading for. The subconscious mind already has a connection to our pure consciousness which speaks to us as intuition.
The energy vibration we resonate at (or the calibration of the energy) will feed into the non-physical realms (the universe) and look for a matching vibration, thus creating the perceived reality. This is how we subconsciously shape and create our future.
It is therefore my understanding that to successfully read for a person on a psychic level, we simply need to enter the quantum field and access the knowledge the universe holds on this person whilst accurately reading their current energy vibration which will tell us what they will create in the future. This is why we don’t need to be sat in front of a person, in the quantum field time and space do not exist, in fact nothing exists except consciousness. A person will create their future based on their energy vibration at any given time, if a person’s energy creates a dramatic shift in perception, for example, they heal from serious depression or abstain from an addiction, then the future will change. Their energy vibration will change and in affect so will their future. This is why a psychic can only give an accurate prediction based on the current energy vibration of a person. Hence, why as discussed earlier only around 80% of my predictions have been completely accurate. In some cases, only elements of the future will change in accordance to subtle changes in energy vibration.
Speaking to loved ones in spirit, I feel, is misunderstood by many. We are born from light and will go back into the light when we leave. Part of us never really leaves the light either. As the part of us which is God always remains in the light, only the human experience which is felt (the illusionary perception) resides here. Therefore that which is God, or the spirit world is nothing only pure love and consciousness, a place without physicality and individualism. When the consciousness of our loved ones connects with us (or a medium), they give us an impression so that we may know who is communicating. So you may speak to a medium who will tell you I have a gentleman here with me who is giving the name John, he looks like, such and such, he tells me such and such…. This is so that you will know who is communicating but its not an accurate description of what he looks like now. He’s more likely to look like a mass of pulsating light. When we return to pure love we go back to our original form which is ‘pure love’. Even whilst we are having this ‘experience’ we are only really ‘pure love’ it’s the true essence/form of us.
Again, to enter the place of spiritual energy is to move beyond the physical experience we call life and enter the ‘consciousness’ or ‘quantum’ realm, again knowing nothing of time and space (both human descriptions to make life ‘feel’ more real). Its completely natural here. Its who we truly are. The memory of this is what draws us near, it’s the memory of home which makes us curious of the place our loved ones now reside, the ‘memory’ of this is our intuitive guidance system. That’s why is completely natural to ‘tap’ in to this psychic and mediumistic awareness.
I have developed 2 plans to help people understand this more. Either you can develop the natural psychic and mediumship tendencies you already feel, or you can develop your spiritual self and create a better awareness of the non-physical side of your being. Both plans consist of 10 one-hour sessions via Skype video or Zoom video meeting. If you feel confused by what your experiencing or wish to create a greater awareness of it, or if you love spiritual subjects and want it to enhance your life, contact me today at www.beverleyannefreeman.com.
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